The Man's Code To Healing
What does it take to truly heal from a breakup?
Most men don’t have a good answer. Time, booze, drugs, partying, or a rebound are some of the answers you’ll get.
I have a different answer. In just 4 video emails, I will demystify for you the path towards truly healing from a breakup and learning how to turn it into your greatest breakthrough.
What you will learn in this guide is the missing key that no one has taught you.
Most of the advice and content you see online about breakups is essentially heart-broken men who stagnated in their bitterness for too long and turned their resentment towards the very object of their desire. Where they used to love women they now criticize, judge, and ridicule women.
None of them speak to what I will reveal to you in this guide, which is that your breakup is a necessary initiation for you to mature from boy psychology into mature manhood.
What I wrote above will completely fly over the heads of some of you reading. But for other men reading you just experienced a sense of understanding even if you don’t fully realize it currently. I designed this guide for YOU.
The truth is a growing number of men recognize the lack of initiation and guidance they’ve had when it comes to breakups with women and what it means to become a man. The thousands of likes I got on my comments below illustrate this growing awareness among men ⬇️
Here’s the inconvenient truth:
Most men today are young boys living in adult bodies; psychologically they are still little boys.
They might think that they want a woman to love and build a life with, but unconsciously many of them are trying to heal unresolved wounds within their psyche. His relationship with women is a mirror, but most men try to change the mirror instead of confronting themselves. I say this not from a place of superiority, but from a place of deep understanding. I was very much this man myself.
Once I became aware of this inconvenient truth, I delved deep to identify the unresolved conflicts within my psyche that I was projecting onto women. It is the fruits of my deep work within myself that I am now a married man and with a woman who is far beyond anything I could have ever dreamed of.
This FREE guide will teach you exactly how to achieve the same transformation and become the man you (and women) most desire.
The 4 Core Teachings
DEMYSTIFY YOUR RELATIONAL BLUEPRINT
Do you anxiously chase her? Or maybe you push her away so she can’t get too close to you. Both patterns point to unresolved psychological conflicts within your psyche. These conflicts date back to your earliest blueprint for relationships: your parents (especially your mother). When you are aware of the blueprint you will no longer sabotage your relationships with women.
UNDERSTAND YOUR PRIMITIVE MIND
Your primitive mind is designed for one purpose: to help you survive. This is a good thing. However, the very processes that were designed to help you survive are now the very processes causing you suffering post-breakup. This teaching will help you understand the processes of your primitive mind and a simple mental reframe to use to dissolve the mental and emotional angst you’ve been experiencing.
MASTER YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY
Most men today have a piss poor relationship with their body and sexuality. They are either riddled with shame OR are hedonists with no impulse control. The middle way is to learn how to harness and direct your sexual energy from a place of clarity and sovereignty. You will learn simple teachings and practices on how to achieve this. Women can’t resist a man who is in control of his sexual energy.
BUILD A NEW WAY OF RELATING TO WOMEN
You will learn a new blueprint for relating to women that is based on giving vs taking. This shift will distinguish you among the crowd of men who are still projecting their psychological conflicts and wounds onto women. You will also be given tools to identify your visions and cores values. This will help you choose women who are aligned with your soul instead of women who are aligned with your wounds.
Who this is for
Stuck Reminiscing
You’ve been replaying the best moments, looking at old texts/photos, and spending your time stalking her social media just to see if she mentions you at all.
Self-sovereignty
Instead of attaching your identity and well-being to a woman in your life, you remember who you are. A woman is a reflection of how fulfilled you are within yourself. You take joy in your vision and mission. You know yourself more deeply.
Loss of Interest in Your Life
You’ve ignored doing the things that used to bring you joy. Work, food, and exercise all have fallen to the side as you go from day-to-day in a numbed out haze.
Emotional Clarity
You no longer spiral into thought loops and try to think your way out of feeling. You know exactly what to do to interrupt negative thought loops and how to shift your attention towards the mindset and activities that nourish you.
Distraction & Numbing
Doom scrolling, drinking, smoking weed, masturbating to porn, and playing video games have been your go-to vices. Facing reality has felt too painful, so you avoid.
The transformation you get to move towards
Peace & Forgiveness
Instead of staying stuck in resentment like most red pill guys, you recognize the relationship for the blessing that it was. You release her and yourself of any guilt or shame. You live with an open heart that attracts women who are aligned with you.